DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING PERSONAL!!!

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the options and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING PERSONAL!!!

There you have it

DaAncient Ryu
October 22 at 6:30 pm · 

The time you think love manifests itself it evaporates like a dead memory, I have realized that it is not something that you cannot possess for years, what I see in it ain't forever, because my vision is even a blur glance that stares at you away, everything you want ain't even odd yet it is not right here where your heart is at. You will always try to remember all it has done on the plane where you thought it'd take you but the direction ain't destined where you hoped it would. It is beyond our control and imagination to try own a portion of it. It is beyond our reach! We just have to pretend that it exists whereas it is not physical. Many people keep rolling skates just to fly its kite! 

Really, love is in the air, we breath it and take your deepest breath and you will have it all! ‪

Love yourself unconditionally, including yourself

Unfortunately, we have never been taught how to love

unconditionally. Almost all of our loving has been motivated by emotional

desires programmed into us at an early age. Most of our love experiences

have taught us we must earn or deserve love before we can have it -- and that

others must deserve our love. This is conditional love -- it is like a barter or a

business transaction. It is no wonder that our well-meaning but unskilled

attempts to love usually end up in separation and alienation. We have been

taught to place conditions on our love : “If you really loved me you would . .

.” -- and then we use one of our addictions to finish the sentence. This is an

exchange -- it is not unconditional love.

What is unconditional love? It is not, “I can love you if you do what my

emotional programming -- my addictions -- says I want you to do.” It is just

love. Just, “I love you because you are there. I love you because you are

part of the nowness of my life. I love you because although our bodies and

minds may be on different trips, on the consciousness level all of us are alike

in our humanness. We are one.”

Real love is simply accepting another person. Completely and

unconditionally! We experience things from his or her psychic space. It is

like seeing the world through his or her eyes. Whatever he or she is going

through -- whatever he or she is feeling -- we have been there, too -- at some

time in our lives.

When we love, we view others as unfolding beings in their journey toward

higher consciousness. We realize that no matter how intensely we strive for

worldly attainments, we all seek love and oneness on the consciousness

level. We are all on the journey to higher consciousness. Some of us are

hearing the messages life offers us and are working consciously to eliminate

our addictions. Others are not progressing rapidly because they do not yet

know how to consciously work on themselves.

We must also learn to love ourselves -- right here and now. We need to feel

that no matter how horrible we have judged our past actions, each day our life

begins anew. We have at all times been lovable. A child may be naughty, but

he is always lovable. And so we are all children as long as we are

programmed with our lower consciousness addictions. So we must accept

the melodramas we get involved in as we live out our current crop of

addictions. This, too, is a part of life and growth.

Every part of the system of Living Love is designed to help you learn to love

everyone unconditionally -- including yourself. You only need to plant the

living Love seeds in your consciousness and they will automatically sprout.

Do not berate yourself because you are not enlightened by the third Tuesday

of next month. The more you learn to love and accept yourself, the more you

will realize that you are doing exactly what you need to do to provide

yourself with experiences to grow into higher consciousness.

How can you love others if you do not love yourself? The love you have for

yourself and the love you have for “another” are building blocks joining

together within you to create the beautiful edifice of real love.

Learning to love unconditionally means getting free of interference from our

programmed addictions -- those emotion-backed demanding instructions to

our biocomputer. This enables us to perceive clearly what is here and now --

to evaluate wisely -- and to act effectively to do whatever we want to do

about it. They key to this is the instant emotional acceptance of the here and

now -- the emotional acceptance of the previously unacceptable.

When our emotions are triggered, we cannot perceive clearly our actual life

situation. Our biocomputer then sends a flow of information to our

consciousness in which separation and alienation are emphasized. We create

a horribly warped evaluation of the here and now based on our addictive

programming. When this happens, we magnify differences and suppress

similarities between ourselves and “others.” And this destroys our ability to

love unconditionally.

We all know that just having the desire to love is not enough. As far back as

we can remember we have been aware of the importance of love in our lives.

We know that lack of love is responsible for most of the unhappiness in the

world -- for difficulties in getting along with other people, for pollution,

prejudice, wars, and other individual and group crimes against humanity. but

what can we do about it?